Things to be prepared for:
It’s been a long time since my daughter’s TBI via auto accident. She had just turned 16 and as of this writing she is now 50. Back then there was no Internet and I found very little information, so I had to learn through my personal experience which is what I want to share with you.
You may find that your entire life will now change, and you now have many new responsibilities. So, here is an outline of what I feel are important things you may need to take care of (in addition to their possible physical needs), etc.
It’s a good idea to have a notebook to record:
- Doctors, pharmacies, neighbors and emergency contacts
- Medical conditions, allergies, etc. and family history.
- Hospitalizations, and procedures.
- Medications: Prescriptions & over the counter aspirin, vitamins, etc.
- Document notes and follow-ups from doctor appointments
- Organize bills, medical records and insurance forms.
- Your loved one’s daily routines to help you or another caregiver remember important events including meals, medications and nap times.
You and your home:
Take care of yourself. When you’re busy taking care of someone else, it’s easy to brush aside your own health and personal needs.
- Find ways to schedule time for yourself.
- Create personal space in your home where you can go and relax.
- Ask family and friends to help.
- If needed, call in a professional care provider or look for volunteer organizations.
- Get plenty of sleep and exercise (take walks, dance, etc.)
Look around for ways to make your home safer.
Financial Responsibilities:
If you are authorized under state law and/or have power of attorney for financial decisions for your loved one keep good records.
- Bill paying: Your loved one’s monthly expenses
- Making cash deposits and withdrawals
- Insurance and benefits claims
- Tax preparation
- Get receipts for any out-of-pocket expenses
